Thursday, April 06, 2006

A brief conversation

Our son stands next to my wife, about eye-level with her belly.

"Baby, I don't want to talk to you. Maybe next time," he says, addressing the belly.

Hard to know how an almost-three-year-old registers the news of a future sibling-- whether he understands, or thinks it's a joke, or just harbors an uneasy suspicion that something's up.

He's old enough to know that families often have more than one junior member. In stories, the kid protagonist usually comes with a sis or a bro. In our case, it's (probably) the former-- we found that out Wednesday, with the ultrasound.

He's getting a little mei-mei. A shift in the universe.

6 Comments:

At 7:09 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Congratulations!

Amazing that we'll both soon have one of each. And if you thought your world changed by having a son, prepare to be devastated in every good sense of the word the first time you hold your daughter. When's your ETA?

 
At 2:40 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes, congratulations. Now you have the name game. Good luck..!

Our 3.5-year-old has made little comment about our impending daughter (end of May), but tensions & anxieties developing at present almost certainly arise from anxiety & maybe a sense of future displacement.

 
At 9:56 AM , Blogger Rob said...

Thanks, and best wishes to both of you too. We're expecting a Virgo. Name still far from being decided, but we're having a good time rereading "Beyond Jason and Jennifer." Have you guys decided yet?

 
At 5:50 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Nope, no name as of yet. Which in some ways is sad, since our daughter's name was such a no-brainer for us. My poor mother is convinced that we don't love our son because we haven't settled on a name yet with only 10 weeks to go. So we've threatened her with Horatio Englebert. Mostly, especially when he's kicking (like he is right now) I simply call him Li'l Frakker ;)

 
At 7:10 AM , Blogger Aliki2006 said...

Found you!!

I am so happy you will both have one of each. I can't tell you how incredible it is to have a son and a daughter--to marvel at their sameness and their differences.

 
At 11:15 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

No name here yet. All my fault - all the names Emma comes up with remind me of my Victorian maiden aunts (Maud, Mabel, Evie...)

 

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